{"id":7511,"date":"2026-09-10T10:57:39","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T09:57:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/?page_id=7511"},"modified":"2026-09-10T10:58:27","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T09:58:27","slug":"candid-book-3-chapter-2-subchapter-1","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/candid-book-3-chapter-2-subchapter-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Candid book 3 – Chapter 2 – Subchapter 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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2.1 What is intimacy, really?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPeople living with schizophrenia continue to value closeness, companionship, and meaningful relationships. Many describe these as essential to a fulfilling life.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s begin with something that sounds simple, but often isn\u2019t.
What do we really mean when we talk about intimacy?<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s a very important question, because intimacy is often misunderstood.

Many people immediately think of romance or physical closeness. But in everyday life, intimacy is much broader and, in many ways, much quieter.

At its core, intimacy is the feeling of being emotionally connected to another person. It\u2019s the sense that you can be yourself,
with your thoughts, your fears, your hopes, and still feel accepted.<\/mark><\/strong>

Some people describe it very simply:
\u201cI don\u2019t need everything to be perfect. I just need to feel that I can be myself next to them.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In other words it\u2019s less about what we do and more about how we feel with someone.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And often, it shows itself in very small, everyday moments.

It might be the feeling of being understood without having to explain everything.
Or trusting someone enough to show vulnerability, even in subtle ways.
Sometimes it\u2019s sharing something personal; other times, it\u2019s simply sitting together in silence and feeling at ease.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It sounds as though intimacy is something that grows quietly, almost in the background of daily life.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, that\u2019s a very good way to put it.

It often develops through simple routines: a morning coffee, a short walk, a quiet message during the day, or the comfort of knowing someone is there, even without words.

And sometimes, people only realize how meaningful these small moments are when they begin to fade.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That feels very different from how intimacy is often portrayed.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is. In reality, intimacy is rarely dramatic. It\u2019s built slowly, through presence, trust, and repeated experiences of emotional safety.<\/mark><\/strong>

Sexuality can be part of intimacy, but it is only one dimension.<\/mark><\/strong> What sustains relationships over time is something deeper: the feeling of being seen, valued, and emotionally safe with another person.
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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And this need doesn\u2019t disappear in schizophrenia?<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not at all.

People living with schizophrenia continue to value closeness, companionship, and meaningful relationships. Many describe these as essential to a fulfilling life.<\/mark><\/strong>

What may change is not the desire for intimacy, but the way it is expressed or experienced.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The connection is still there, even if it looks different.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes the illness affects how emotions are communicated. A person may feel deeply connected, but find it harder to express those feelings clearly.
At other times, interpreting social signals, tone, facial expression, or subtle emotional cues can become more challenging.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This can lead to misunderstandings between partners.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes. Both people may care deeply about each other, but still misread each other\u2019s signals. One may feel close internally, while the other experiences distance.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So the connection may still exist, but not always be visible.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s an important point.

The need for intimacy remains. What changes is the pathway through which it is expressed.<\/mark><\/strong>

And when partners understand that, it becomes easier to remain patient and open, even when closeness feels less obvious on the surface.

Intimacy is not defined by intensity or dramatic moments.
It grows through feeling understood, emotionally safe, and quietly connected over time.<\/mark><\/strong>

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Next subchapter<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

2.1 What is intimacy, really? \u201cPeople living with schizophrenia continue to value closeness, companionship, and meaningful relationships. Many describe these as essential to a fulfilling life.\u201d Elena: Let\u2019s begin with something that sounds simple, but often isn\u2019t.What do we really mean when we talk about intimacy? Dr. Stein: That\u2019s a very important question, because intimacy […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"page-sod.php","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"rea_page_title_signed_in_meta_block_field":"","rea_page_title_signed_out_meta_block_field":"","rea_page_description_signed_in_meta_block_field":"","rea_page_description_signed_out_meta_block_field":"","rea_page_footer_id_meta_block_field":"","rea_page_footer_date_meta_block_field":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-7511","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/7511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7511"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/7511\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8030,"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/7511\/revisions\/8030"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}