{"id":7523,"date":"2026-09-10T11:04:34","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T10:04:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/?page_id=7523"},"modified":"2026-09-10T11:04:35","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T10:04:35","slug":"candid-book-3-chapter-3-subchapter-1","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/candid-book-3-chapter-3-subchapter-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Candid book 3 &#8211; Chapter 3 &#8211; Subchapter 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full square-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"212\" src=\"https:\/\/schizophrenia.life\/public\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/subchapter-3_1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7574\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p class=\"lh-n mb-2 mt-1 has-text-color has-link-color has-large-font-size wp-elements-1 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d\"><strong>3.1 Why does body image influence intimacy?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"mb-0 has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-2 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#58595b;font-size:18px\"><em>\u201cSelf-perception is dynamic, not permanent.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"sod_highlight py-4\"><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper my-0\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It sounds as though body image is about more than appearance.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-4 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">Yes, it is closely connected to identity and self-confidence.<br><br><strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#1f659d\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Body image can influence how comfortable people feel when approaching relationships, physical closeness, or romantic situations.<\/mark><\/strong><br><br>When individuals feel embarrassed or ashamed about their physical appearance, they may withdraw socially, even if they still desire connection. And this can be confusing for others. A partner might think, \u201cThey don\u2019t want to go out anymore,\u201d when in reality, the desire is still there, but the confidence is not.<br><br>In clinical practice, we often hear this expressed very directly. Some people say they avoid going out, not because they don\u2019t want to, but because they don\u2019t feel comfortable in their own body. Many describe a kind of internal hesitation:<br><br>\u201cI want to go\u2026 but I don\u2019t feel like I can show myself like this.\u201d Others describe wanting closeness, but not feeling confident enough to allow someone to come near.<br><br>Dissatisfaction with physical health and body image is strongly associated with reduced social participation and lower life satisfaction.<br><br>For caregivers, <strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#1f659d\" class=\"has-inline-color\">this means that social withdrawal is sometimes linked to self perception, not to a lack of interest in relationships.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"sod_highlight py-4\"><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper my-0\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-5 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dr. Stein, caregivers sometimes say:<br><br><em>\u201cHe used to feel comfortable with himself\u2026 now something has changed.\u201d<\/em><br><br>Why does this happen?<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-6 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">That is a very important observation.<br><br>Changes in how a person perceives their body or physical self usually do not happen suddenly. They tend to develop gradually, often influenced by several factors acting together over time.<br><br>Sometimes people describe this as feeling \u201cdifferent in their own skin,\u201d even when others may not notice any visible change. And often they can\u2019t fully explain what has changed. They just know something feels off.<br><br>These changes may often develop through shifts in physical health or weight, lower energy, changes in daily routines, or social experiences where a person may feel judged or misunderstood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"sod_highlight py-4\"><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper my-0\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The change may therefore be gradual rather than immediate.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-8 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">That gradual development can make it difficult to recognise at first. Sometimes people close to the individual notice a change before the person is able to identify or describe it.<br><br>Over time, these small changes can influence how someone feels in social situations or intimate contexts.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"sod_highlight py-4\"><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper my-0\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-9 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Elena:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That sounds like something that could be difficult to reverse.<\/p>\n\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rea-main rea-page-default\"><div class=\"rea-page-default__wrapper\"><div class=\"\"><div class=\"entry-content\">\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-10 wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"color:#1f659d;font-size:20px\"><strong>Dr. Stein:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-right wp-block-paragraph\">It can be challenging, but it is not fixed.<br><br>What is important to understand is that <strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);color:#1f659d\" class=\"has-inline-color\">self-perception is dynamic, not permanent<\/mark><\/strong>.<br><br>Supportive environments, attention to physical well-being, and positive relational experiences may help people rebuild confidence and develop a more comfortable sense of self.<br><br>In clinical practice, we often hear this expressed very directly.<br><br>Some patients tell me they feel exposed or judged in ways that are hard to explain, even when others don\u2019t notice anything different. Others say they still want closeness, but don\u2019t feel confident enough in their own body to get close to someone.<br><br>These are not abstract concerns, they are lived experiences that shape how people move through relationships.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center button__primary button-text sod-subchapter-button-1f659d wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"\/public\/candid-book-3-chapter-3\/\">Back to chapter<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center button__primary button-text sod-subchapter-button-1f659d wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"\/public\/candid-book-3-chapter-3-subchapter-2\">Next subchapter<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>3.1 Why does body image influence intimacy? \u201cSelf-perception is dynamic, not permanent.\u201d Elena: It sounds as though body image is about more than appearance. Dr. Stein: Yes, it is closely connected to identity and self-confidence. Body image can influence how comfortable people feel when approaching relationships, physical closeness, or romantic situations. 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